I will be there to as OTWO put it, to tell "the JW's in your life that there is still hope that you will come back".
I started this thread because a few days ago, I asked my wife about it and her immediate response was "NO"!
We both attended last year. I don't think she had fully thought it through when I asked her.
Here's how I see it. There are only two things in JW World that are bigger bird flips than not attending the Memorial:
1. Getting DFed on purpose, having no "repentance" and no plans on getting back in.
2. Doing #1 plus sending in a DA letter.
The longer I'm out of the JWs, the more I care about excessive lying. If I go to the Memorial, I can honestly say that I attended. If I don't attend, and am subsequently asked "How was your Memorial?" I will have to explain why I didn't go. Short of extreme medical problems, it's a bird flip, IMO.
As long as my parents are alive, I think I'll be a once a year KH attender.
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